Do Not Judge One Another

When we think of "self-control" we often think of "controlling ourselves" or "managing our actions or responses." As an attribute of the fruit of the Spirit, "self-control" isn't rigid discipline or self-management, it is an expression of surrender to the Spirit's guidance in our lives.

Similar to the thrill and surrender of a roller coaster ride, self-control produced by the Spirit is not about suppressing our desires, ignoring our emotions, or deflecting our thoughts - but humbly submitting it all to the Spirit's direction. It's not about following rules rigidly, but being responsive to the Spirit's nudges. Rather than passivity, this invites us to be actively present and engage in our experiences - mindful of the moments we're in and prepared to respond. This attribute of Christlikeness is noticeable in how we view others.

One of the most misunderstood commands could be, "Do not judge one another," especially in our highly individualistic culture. But judgement within the Christian faith is not about passing self-righteous verdicts, but about discerning what is true, good, and aligned with Christ's teachings.